Also, if you've read any of this persons posts before, you'd know that they've come to the conclusion that empaths can be just as dangerous as sociopaths. They are trying to manipulate you and the other person for their own advantage. Maybe you want to inflict as much suffering on your mother as you say she inflicted on you. Evidently I have been effectively "rehabilitated". This way when they hear you and your friends reminiscing about such awesome events that they felt they had the god given right to be involved in, they will become obsessively jealous, increasing the likelihood they will do something drastically stupid. Is that sic or what? what do you think? Confuse them all right, I had a sociopath trying to slander me like crazy on message boards. He made you like him. The sociopath will almost always win in that situation. I did / have covered bases on his scummy trick. While most of the time, they're quite a bother (irritation over the weather and other non-controllable things), sometimes they can be useful, such as when dealing with my boss, she's obviously an empath, and was wary about me at first, until I felt her probing at me for emotional responses, and she tripped my one safeguard. If you're going to try to appear more than you are at least stay consistent. I was good friends with one sociopath who fucked me over despite all the helpful and "shirt off my back" things I did for him. Can this really be achieved? I wish I could say I'm perfect, but I have to be introspective at this time and look within to see why I am compassionate towards evil. If you pile on the emotion they will likely believe you. The is no way to truly "beat" a sociopath. And will he eventually try to come back and "finish me off"??? and my husband have just come back to me and every thing happened just the way he had said it i am so happy that i have met with him and now i have my husband back to my self. I'm sure feelings for her are still there.I suppose even sociopaths don't all fit one mold. Any time you let someone "get to you" and direct you toward action you wouldn't take normally in the situation, they are by definition leading you and as long as you ALLOW yourself to follow you are in the losing position. I was her object of hatred growing up. It seems to be true what some sociopaths say - many "empaths" want to be victimized. Most of them want friends, as do all people, albeit for different reasons than most people want friends. What a joke! That's the problem..to beat them we have to become them? (They are still my Friends, although he does not know. Not all sociopaths are hurtful, nor are most of our intentions ill. The short answer is yes, sociopaths are generally aware that they are sociopaths. Normal is boring to him. You beat them by repelling their behaviour, by standing against it, by enforcing morality and conducting yourself correctly. They're nothing special, you could become just like them if you played the game long enough. I had thought about this - it had to be reasons that would appeal to her - she would never pause to test whether my stated reasons appealed to ME; my wants and needs didn't matter to her so she couldn't' reference them when she needed to. Then there is Obama who can take 30 jets to India when there are people here who have no food or place to live. (not in Australia anyway).We just assume that sociopaths/psychopaths are serial killers or mass murderers.No one receives a flyer with a list of traits that says; "Hi everybody, watch out for these traits. He'd probably just become bored with you before that, and he'll probably get bored again. :)Marchttps://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=1493391829522. Sociopaths are often at the center of love triangles, or the people to break up a marriage. Bullshit you can't be cured. For a claimed hater of narcissists, you are closer to that than a sociopath.Just because one person feeds you indirect or false information does not mean they will win. why would anyone want to even look at one of these congenitally deformed freaks much less engage in a battle with them - kind of like stepping on an dirty bug that suirts you with slime. He is like two people. Or tell them there is something on their penis that looks like a wart. Praise for The Sociopath Next Door “It sounds like a treatment for a creepy psychological thriller: a world in which one in every 25 people walks through life without a drop of human compassion . How To Win Against a Sociopath As soon as we engage in this win / lose mentality, we abandon our hearts and forget what's really important: vulnerability and love. We are the sheep and they are the wolves ...And Yes they are pathetic and have the upper hand. Sociopaths are motivated by having power over others and using it to fulfill their selfish needs. My brother was twice diagnosed as a sociopath, so to no surprise I ended up marrying one. @Vigiluis - mmmmmm aptly put but it's more fun if you identify the sociopath before they know who you are and then sabotage or otherwise mess with them anonymously. He said thathe did not invite me because he did not want me there. This comment has been removed by the author. They know exactly what to say, when to say it, and how to say it. It's true, they think everything we empaths say is true because they don't really feel to deeply. Then dump the loser for good.....*** FFS!..why do you all seem to think we are of limited intelligence? He's diagnosed as bipolar/schizophrenic. There's nothing special about these people. Blog owner is not responsible for third party content. You want to find a redeeming feature?, then look in different places, talk to different people and LEARN before you cast your aspersions. I'm no dummy and a giving person by nature and that's all it took. That will be the best revenge ever. I am truly an empath. I feel that empaths take that very same feeling into a good place. Of course, it's also probably incredibly hard if they've got ties to you, such as children or family. It's something in their eyes that makes people believe it unless you can break it, and I have. It sucks i have to do that everyday all the time at my job in order to collect a paycheck and pay my rent but its life i guess one day i hope this girl is gonna get what she deserves i just hope im around to witness it. They most certainly destroy, unforgivablely, without remorse. A sociopath raised by an insane person. I dropped everything & ignored him, but he wanted me to verbally admit to defeat. The circumstances may vary, the scale of the lie may vary, but at some point the sociopath will tell you something that simply isn't true. So we can skip past how to spot one. An early remark stood out to me and i may be late to comment but your wrong, lying about your emotions is like lying about the weather. Just ask Andrew Bird. Then it hit me that this guy was incapable of any sympathy (which he told me on several occasions) When I did begin to empathies with his emotional state, I found myself feeling cold and dark. Thanks... Hey socio,Any chance of a bit of help? I've known a sociopath for over 9 years and they are the manipulative and deceitful type who hurt others and destroy lives. And a Male SPATH is a BASTARD.Cheers,BuBu, I found this topic to be very interesting.Yes, most SP's are quite harmless in 'most' situations... and like just about everything there is good and bad in everyone SP's included.I find the concept of winning or beating a SP negative, it's often not about beating a SP but more so limiting the damage and havoc they can create. .. Well the answer sure isn't to become one of them! Got human services involved and is claiming to be the victim. I "beat" him by severing my ties with him and taking our mutual friends with me (taking his toys, so to speak). Oh, are you suffering, my darling socio? Any suggestions? Most of his family wants little to do with him. We let her move in with us because of some family crisis she was having at home. Welcome to the new normal. What else would one expect? Remove yourself from the equation. They lie for a living. Pity is the sincerest form of really being above someone, and when you are ready forget about them. First of all, some of us know right off the bat that we are dealing with an idiot that has no concern for the consequences of their actions. This will do the trick. Not because I care for their well-being, but because being positive with others usually leads to positive feedback. There are anomalous humans and I just volunteer to be counted among them. Now I know why from your statement, as I mentioned above. Thats just one of the many things she does to try and destroy me so i have to stay on my toes be crafty creative and smarter. For a short time i really thought that. Kind of my way of making my own "restitution" for what he is doing. Practice makes perfect, that's true with anything. Im rather glad though that people like this carry on distributing this erroneous crap...it makes fooling people so much easier!.**. Just stop. Beating a sociopath is completely gratifying only whilst you are doing so; as you defeat each level you feel yourself unwittingly engaged in the sociopath's beloved game. ?.......that, to me, seems incredibly pompous and self-serving..which makes you better than us how exactly?.The irony is..unless one of us slips and drops the mask..youd never know what we are.......the bigger irony is that your statements put into "sociopathic context"...could have well been authored by an adept sociopath just to throw people off the scent.. scarey huh??. But I won't make that assumption as I am not you and I have no idea what motivated your comment. Yet we have become more civilized over the centuries..so how did we achieve this with all these demented snakes about corrupting the better ranks of society?.. For the next ten minutes he'd hit me, say hurtful things, pull my hair & swear at me, but I could tell he was the one suffering. By leaving comments on the blog, commenters give license to the blog owner to reprint attributed comments in any form. If they were really so strong and better than others, they wouldn't need to cheat or have any compulsion to do so. In order to defeat anyone, you mustthink as they think. And if you are considered an extremely truthful and reputable person, exposing them helps, also... less people to manipulate and take advantage of. If someone lies to you repeatedly NEVER trust them again and EXPEL them. I was ONE! I do not even like to kill bugs. (how polite is that! Just Disappear. Sociopaths make up 4% of the population. Prior to that she thought I was so smart, funny, and pretty and told me so all the time. "The truth is that sociopaths are largely harmless. That's what makes them tough to deal with, they simply don't care while their victims do. You don't even know your doing it I bet, but you compare yourself to something better than empaths, than those that have complete and perfect wiring in our brains. Give him what he pretends to want, in ways that don't give in to what he really wants. Usually at the point that things have gotten to where they are non-sociopath has an great motivation to just stop the relationship as they have more to gain and less to lose.So any continuation of the relationship, fighting or what have you means you have more to lose. They are like cattle and can be led by their own fear and emotions to say, wipe out civilizations and entire races.Ted Bundy kills a small group of people and his crimes are some huge atrocity, when your silly devotion to gods causes the crusades and the inquisition, holy wars and Nazis. ...so basically your saying, she's bringing you down with her...? 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